Are you a parent struggling to improve your child's behavior? You are not alone. Many parents are unsure about how to get their kids to behave properly. The key to getting children to act they way you wish them to act is found in the way they are disciplined.
Disciplining kids is a very important, yet difficult, role of being a parent.  Effectively discipline teaches a child to be self-disciplined later in life.  It helps him or her grow up to be happy and well-adjusted. Effective and positive change teaches and guides children, and helps them to feel safe, secure, and valued.  
Discipline should be based on a child's age, expansion and temperament. A parent's aim by disciplining should be to protect them from danger, to help them learn self-control and self-discipline and to develop a sense of responsibility. 
Children should be respectful of their parent's authority. If they're punished harshly or unfairly, especially if it includes humiliating, it will make it difficult if not impossible for him or her to trust their parent.
Parents must be consistent in their discipline. Discipline that's not consistent is confusing to children, no matter how old they are. If there is inconsistency in the method they correct their children, it will only make it much more difficult to respect them. It can also indirectly encourage misbehaving and derivatives in confusion and frustration for the child.
Discipline must also be fair.  Parents must make sure that the consequences are related to the offense and and are not too severe or too lax. The value of their effect should be related to their behavior.
In order to discourage unfavorable behavior, give your child a choice about what to do. Children are much more cooperative when they have a say in what goes on. Make sure rules that protect the safety, wellness and well-being of your descendant are given highest priority.  If your child is irritable, tired or upset, be empathic and try to help calm them. It's important to keep in mind that negative behavior can sometimes be circumstantial.
Positive parenting can have a very good effect on your child's behavior. You can encourage good behavior by spending time alone with your child each day. Give him or heraffection or a gentle pat on the back and give praise when it is due. Positive discipline is a key to improving a child's behavior. If your child is angry or sad, it is important to find out why. And most importantly, you need to teach good behavior by modelling the desired behavior, behaving properly and appropriately yourself.
As mentioned before, disciplining kids can be a very difficult endeavor. But if it is guided by the goals of ensuring safety, developing self-discipline, being fair and just and giving positive discipline when it is due, it can go a long way in terms of improving your child's behavior.